Abstinence Programs Mislead Teens, Report Says

If there are two particular line items in the Bush budget that tick me off it is a) faith based initiatives and b) abstinence programs for teens. Faith based initiatives are millions of dollars to church programs with zero accountability or oversight. Today, the Washington Post has this jaw-dropping article on a new congressional report that shows the ludicracy of the program. (Via Slate)

Many American youngsters participating in federally funded abstinence-only programs have been taught over the past three years that abortion can lead to sterility and suicide, that half the gay male teenagers in the United States have tested positive for the AIDS virus, and that touching a person’s genitals “can result in pregnancy,” a congressional staff analysis has found.

Among the misconceptions cited by Waxman’s investigators:

– A 43-day-old fetus is a “thinking person.”

– HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, can be spread via sweat and tears.

– Condoms fail to prevent HIV transmission as often as 31 percent of the time in heterosexual intercourse.

One curriculum, called “Me, My World, My Future,” teaches that women who have an abortion “are more prone to suicide” and that as many as 10 percent of them become sterile. This contradicts the 2001 edition of a standard obstetrics textbook that says fertility is not affected by elective abortion, the Waxman report said.

Swiss Exchange Student Comes and Goes

A couple months ago I started a sister-blog to chronicle my experiences and post pictures from an exchange program I am involved in in which a junior in high school from Switzerland stays with my family for three weeks and then I go to Zurich for three weeks.

Patrice, the student from Zurich, arrived three weeks ago and left this evening after celebrating Thanksgiving with my family. Img_0340More details and pictures are at my Zurich Exchange blog, but I learned some interesting things during his stay.

1. Switzerland is not very different from America. Other than the four official languages, much involving politics, culture, and adolescence is the same. This is not to say there are no differences or to try to homogenize two distinct peoples, but I never expected my mindset, opinions, or questions about life to be so similar.

2. Their approach to education is much different. They have longer school days and virtually no homework. This is compared to the US private high school education of shorter school days and hours and hours of homework.

3. The Swiss kids knew more about American culture than I did. They knew more movie stars, more music bands, and the like.

4. Europeans close the door to bathrooms even when no one is in there!?

5. I will generalize and say most European teens like heavy metal, punk music. Yuck.

In the New Year I will start thinking about my trip to Zurich in the beginning of June. I’ll be taking classes in English at their school but I’d like to travel a bit to the surrounding countries of Italy, Germany, or France. If you have any ideas or experiences please share.

Belt Out Those Christmas Carols

The day has arrived. My family’s tradition is that you can only listen to Christmas carols from the day after Thanksgiving till New Year’s. I have a wonderful collection of Christmas MP3s and I’ll be adding some more soon. Some sleeper picks: “So This Is Christmas” by John Lennon, “Wonderful Christmas Time” by Paul McCartney and the Wings, “Christmas Shoes” the soundtrack from the movie, “What Christmas Means to Me” by Stevie Wonder, “Little Drummer Boy” by The Nylons, and of course anything from the Charlie Brown soundtrack.

Some SF radio stations have been playing x-mas songs for a couple weeks which really annoyed me. No more. The holidays are coming!

A Book a Day This Long Weekend

If Brad thinks he’s the only one reading a book a day this Thanksgiving weekend, he’s dead wrong.

Well, let’s say I’m finishing at least a book a day and starting several more.

Yesterday I finished The Business of Software which is a comprehensive review of various software company business models. Despite a positive review from someone (can’t remember now) this book let me down. Same old, same old.

I then finished Disgrace, a novel from my English class “Big Payback: Literature of Revenge”. It was pretty good, but I can see why it’s assigned for school reading. A college professor in South Africa has affairs with his students (“not quite rape, but undesired to the core”) and then the tables turn. It’s deep stuff but wonderful prose. If you’re interested in South Africa, their apartheid, race relations, and sexual scandals, you may enjoy this.

I’m in the process of reading Millenials Rising, a relentless upbeat portrait of my generation which they coin “Millenials” and not “Generation Y.” It juxtaposes the negative press and stereotypes of today’s young people with contrasting research which shows we will all be incredible leaders and are the brightest hope this country has had. Gotta have pride in your generation!

Finally, I’m almost done with The MouseDriver Chronicles. It’s fantastic, fun, and has taught me a few things as well. Any entrepreneur should read this book. The MouseDriver guys were getting their first press right when my first company was getting off the ground. There was one TV segment which profiled them – these bright, charismatic, Wharton MBAs with a super-clever product, and then me, a 12-year-old kid who was trying to track and resolve government complaints for free for citizens. Ouch.

Re-Defining the Entrepreneurial Lifestyle

The current stereotypes of entrepreneurs usually are 70-80 hour weeks, cold pizza and Coke every day for meals, caffeine, no sleep, and the sacrifice of family, friends, and personal time in the name of business. I am disheartened when I speak with young people who are either a) scared to start a business because they think that’s what it takes, or b) are super pumped to start a business because that kind of lifestyle fires them up.

It is our responsibility, entrepreneurs or people interested in/work with entrepreneurs, to re-define what a successful and sustainable entrepreneurial lifestyle is. Both these aspects are important. You can be successful for 4 or 5 years but be burnt out afterwards.

The Power of Full Engagement has been a good resource for me in this area, with its emphasis on managing energy, not time. Here’s my partial list of components to a successful, sustainable lifestyle. (By the way, I often size people up based on their attention to these areas.)

1. Sleep – At least 7-8 hours a day. The most amazing thing I see on a regular basis is people who routinely ignore study after study which report that anything less than this and your decision making ability goes way down. Your alertness goes way down. Your retention of key information goes way down. If getting 4-5 of sleep a day is the norm for you, then you may say “I do fine on these hours.” My challenge to you: go three weeks with 7-8 hours a sleep a day and let me know if you feel a difference. You won’t know unless you try.

2. Nutrition – There’s nothing worse than running to a meeting feeling hungry, or worse yet, trying to catch a flight when you are starving and no time for dinner. Any entrepreneur who doesn’t travel with a healthy supply of Cliff Bars is nuts. Also, eating breakfast has been proven time after time to be essential to be able to give 100% all day long.

3. Exercise – I work out two hours a day, six days a week. I immediately feel the difference when I go a few days with no treadmill, basketball court, or weights. Many decently successful, moderately interesting entrepreneurs work long hours and swear they have no time to get to a gym. But the very best people in the business world I see always find time to get their one hour in. If they can find time for it, so can you.