Resistence to Change and Importance of Emotions

An awesome post over at the great Creating Passionate Users blog on how change is vital to people and organizations (duh) but how we are hard wired in our brains to resist change. The way to overcome this challenge is to introduce positive, intrinsic emotions instead of relying on simple logic or facts. This resonates with me. I’ll be at a party and a peer from school will be smoking a cigarette. I will ask him, “Are you nuts?” I’ve never understood teens who start smoking a cigarette or two a day and think they’ll just quit in a year.

For so many years, we thought of emotions as something to be down played, poo-poo’d. We thought: hey, we’re human beings with a big brain, using our logic we can live better lives. Now we know better: emotions are key to learning, memory, decision making, and to changing our behavior.

Facts don’t really make a huge difference in people’s behavior. I think this is surprising to people because we believe, intellectually, that knowing a fact (e.g. smoking is bad for you) should be enough to change your behavior. But it’s not! Proof positive: we’ve known for years that smoking is really bad for you, but people do it anyway. Facts are interpreted within a frame, as the article calls it. This frame is the existing structure and wiring of our brains. If we are told a fact that doesn’t fit in with that frame, then we simply ignore it or choose not to believe it.

Link: Creating Passionate Users: Change — or lose your mind.

Facilitating a Discussion on World Intervention

Last week I was asked to co-facilitate a discussion section at my school on world intervention during world crises – specifically, the Rwanda genocide and how the international community let that happen. A faculty member got a Fulbright-Hays grant last summer to travel to Rwanda and study the culture. This discussion was modeled around what is called “popular education” – where the people have both the questions and answers.

When thinking about world intervention, there are some obvious questions that are hard to answer. Does the United States have a moral or economic obligation to step in and help resolve international crises? If so, how do we decide where to lend aid? Should we only be focusing our efforts at those areas from which we have some gain ourselves (e.g. Iraq and oil)?

After the Holocaust we said “never again.” After Rwanda we said “never again.” Now, as Darfur is exploding, we are saying “never again.” I sense a pattern that I don’t like.

This Blog and Google Results

I laughed when I got an email last week from a marketing guy at Sports Illustrated magazine wanting to know how/why this blog was the #1 result for a Google search for “sports illustrated blog” (no quotes). I responded saying I had an insider deal with Google. Other than this post when I quoted some very funny excerpts from a Sports Illustrated issue, there should be no other reason why I come before the actual company itself.

Similarly, a woman from Scripps College came across my blog after a Google search for “college admissions blog.” Unfortunately, Scripps is a women’s college, but in our exchange I did encourage to start a blog with an “insider’s look” at the college admissions process.

Link: Google Search: sports illustrated blog .

What To Read in the Times Today

A great Sunday morning of NYT reading. Don’t miss:

1. David Brooks’ Column – Even though I would opt for happier years due to great health than a few more years of obsesity-induced depression, this is a funny take on the latest nutrition study that says people slightly overweight may live longer than skinny people.

Mostly, I’m happy on an existential level. I like to be reminded that the universe is basically crooked. This is what the zero-tolerance brigades and all the better living gurus never quite get. They’re busy trying to mold everybody into lifelong valedictorians, who spend their adulthood as carb counters and responsible flossers – the sort of organized folk who actually read legal documents before they sign them…In reality, life is perverse and human beings don’t get what they deserve. The people with the worst grades start the most successful businesses. The shallowest people end up blissfully happy and they are so vapid they don’t even realize how vapid they are because vapidity is the only trait that comes with its own impermeable obliviousness system. The people regarded as lightweights, like F.D.R., J.F.K. and Ronald Reagan, make the best presidents, while you – so much more thoughtful and better read – would be a complete disaster. Life isn’t fair, logic is of limited value and, as Woody Allen observed years ago, everything your parents once thought was good for you turns out to be bad for you: sun, milk, red meat and college.

2. Aural History – In the “Reading File,” an excerpt from an article in Smithsonian about a project to preserve distinctive sounds.

Much of the richness of life is absorbed through the ear. And much of the clash and chaos, too. From a mother’s lullaby to the drumroll of thunder from an approaching storm to the cacophony of car horns in a traffic jam, the sounds of our lives help define our lives…But unlike spotted owls and snail darters, endangered sounds have few advocates.

3. Watching TV Makes You SmarterSteven Johnson’s article adapted from his new book Everything Bad Is Good for You: How Today’s Popular Culture Is Actually Making Us Smarter.

4. Book Review: End of Poverty – Reviewed by Chicago prof and blogger Daniel Drezner. I will be reading the book soon.

5. Book Review (Education Life): Art of Teaching – Being a good teacher inside or outside of a classroom is a marvelous skill. This is a brief review of a Middlebury prof’s new book The Art of Teaching.

6. Education Life: The Unpopular Major – I’ve always found people who majored in something wacky – say, religious studies or philosophy – far more interesting than your yet-another Poli Sci major.

Book: A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again

I finished A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments by David Foster Wallace which is a collection of writings from “one of his generation’s pre-eminent talents.” That Wallace is brilliant has never been a question; he received a MacArthur Fellowship which is basically $500k paid out over 5 years with no strings attached, no reporting requirements, etc. to people who are contributing to society.

The book is a collection of seven pieces ranging from television to tennis, from the Illinois State Fair to the fun of traveling aboard a Caribbean luxury cruiseliner. Each piece is lively, well written, and often contains some deeper meaning that can be lost amidst Wallace’s jest. He can take what would otherwise be a few page overview of a tennis tournament, and turn it into a 25 page romp that begs the question, “Would have ever been able to grasp that much detail?” Since reading the essays I’ve noticed myself observing tiny Wallace-esque details at, say, the coffee shop. If you like hilarious nonfiction essays that turn the seemingly trivial into the fascinating, read this book.